September 7, 2016
So, last week we talked about passionate, romantic love. This week we’re going to talk about ludus, but I have a slight confession to make. I kind of cheated. Ludus is actually Latin and not Greek, but whatever. It means “play, game, sport, training” and refers to the affection between children or young lovers.
While ludus is about passion, it more so encapsulates the idea of having fun with each other doing different activities. It encompasses all the teasing and flirting that goes on in the early stages of a dating relationship. It happens when you both are still testing out what it might be like to be together, falling in love and what not, but that’s where it all ends. You see, in ludus, there is no commitment or responsibility involved.